Monday, April 16, 2007

Mind your heart!!!

Lately there has been a zillion definitions for the word love. They say its blind, they say its deaf and yeah sometimes its dumb. The best feeling in the world have to be felt.-Helen Keller.They clearly define why love has to be blind, deaf and dumb. I have never understood the concept of break-off albeit I was myself a victim of this weird phenomena. The mind tells your heart to pump blood, used by the former to issue commands to the later. So in a break off ur mind wants to kill and the heart wants to save the relationship.To put it in a simple way ur heart wouldn't listen to ur mind!End result is frustration.But "Practicality" which I believe is the mind's mentor is pretty strong and eventually wins the battle, weakening the heart.

People wanted to be practical for various reasons.But the strong reason I believe is that, the practical mind has a solution for every bloody problem under or over the sun, while contrastingly the heart doesn't have a solution for even the smallest issue.In this competitive world "Most" of them wanna play it safe. cuz one failure would mean that they are out of the game.There can be this another new strategy of taking things as they come. trust on the orders of the mind's mentor and assume it has a solution for everything.your heart would get hypnotised to practicality, with the mind always encouraging this transition. This would probably be the case of an ideally ever happy human being.This would mean that he/she would be pretending to be happy when they are sad.

Trust! an impression probably once tarnished shall never ever be redesigned.This i believe is a rare event where the heart wins over the mind. No matter what practical reasons the mind gives, the heart declines to accept and that's how an impression is made in your mind.SO when u lose the trust u never repent on your decision. In this interesting phenomena one thing to be noted is that the mind gives way so that the incident no longer bothers your heart.Ur minds vents frustration which i think is understandable.So... except for heart, no one accepts defeat.

They say when your in love u win their heart. which means the mind takes the backseat.cuz love is that amazing phenomenon which dares to live in this competitive world challenging the very practical guru, The mind.ur first love shall always be in your mind but there are those rare privileged souls who "might" find love for the second time and for those who have been unlucky might never know the difference of mind and heart and become practical forever. and ! I am inclined for the heart.reason is simple. without mind ur a dumb person, without a heart ur dead. u make ur choice!

14 comments:

Jdas said...

sahi hai ......

Unknown said...

Sunderaa..I wud like to give u my expertise on this blog "mind ur heart",this being my forte:) Title is really good,well thought of and innovative..u got the heart and the mind right but missed out on 'soul'.Dont knw wat it is,but somthn(the soul) is missing, may be u cud figure tht out..but hey the line 'ur mind wants to kill but heart wants to save' was a top notch..keep it up buddy

Unknown said...

"Majnu" sunder naa jaane tera dil kitne ladkiyon ne tod diya!!!! this blog does give a rear peak into the emotinal turbulence u have been thru....bro whenever u need a shoulder to cry on, you can count on me...hehehehehehe

brighteyes1978 said...

WOW WOW WOW!!! Very nicely written. Truly coming from a person who has dealt with the Heart vs. Mind battle. I choose the heart over the mind. U always want to play it safe, but in the end I believe it is the heart who should win. Without the heart we have nothing. And with out Love we are nothing.

Unknown said...

I believe everythings is NONSENSE.....
mere maan.....
dimag laga....
dil ko thel lene jane de

both dimag and dil are nonsense...
sense hai to sirf hum hai....

janeeee..........
Dikawe pe mat ja....
apni akal laga...

Uma Bontha said...

I have lost my mind and heart reading ur blog.

Uma Bontha said...

I have lost my mind and heart reading ur blog

arnik83 said...

this is a nice subject and looks like it has been thoroughly researched .... nicely worded too .

hope you find your true love quick and help us by writing more blogs on 'how to deal with intimate relationships'

good work

arnik83 said...

great subject and looks like it has been well researched !!

hope you meet your lady love quick and help us by writing blogs on 'dealing with relationships'..

good work . keep blogging.

Neetal said...

Janab, blog update kejiye .... kuch to likhiye ..... been waiting for it :)

Angad said...

Awesome

Unknown said...

dude
what is this all about
love
i think u have kicked the word love and atlast when the end was to come,u started to sing song of love
i guess last 3 lines sung the song
tell something more about it dude

Darshana said...
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Darshana said...

The war between mind and heart very beautifully portrayed... I think the soul always moves towards the ultimate truth whether you like it or not, but when you reach there you will be "truly" happy